男人.女人 -阿穆隆 许茹芸

Early morning , as usual i would listen to MY FM while travelling to office for work. And at one moment, suddenly i heard this song...."男人.女人 -阿穆隆 & 许茹芸 " . At 1st, i dont know who is the singer till i make a search and found this simple but relaxing MV. Haha..to be honest, im not sure who is that guy ..but the girl, roughly i think i know who...haha...

Pls dont mind, because im really never study mandarin but funny, i love to hear mandarin song and i learn those words through the song..Im very love those sentimental and love song...My colleague also did not believe that i did not know mandarin...it did surprised them when I communicate with them in mandarin...they say im consider ok in speaking...

This song, really sing through the heart of a men and women. A women wish she could found the good one who really can give her secure and the love she need. While for men, he hope he could be the one she love and hope she feel the happiness when with him...

This song, i would like to dedicate to a friend of mine. He having some problem with his gf...Hope through this song, he will finally understand the meaning of love. We should understand that what we have given out will not be equal to what we received..If you really love her, then you have to trust her. Is not easy to find someone you love and she love you the same. Im sure all of us did fall down and feel betray in love but doesnt means we need to give up. And many of us sure did something wrong in the past..learn to forgive and accept the fact if one day you and her really destined not to be together.....There are still many good one and im sure you will found one soon...

Hope you can found YOURS ONE....


p/s: as for this friend, i have to keep secret of his identity...haha...privacy purposes...

Sourvenirs from Thailand

Last night, my bro just back from Thailand ...wow...guess what? It is a 10days trip and now he is as dark as me. Im consider a milo girl but he is coffee guy lio...haha....He told me the weather in Thailand is more hot than in Malaysia. He quite enjoy the trip with few of his friends. Not to say, he told me he had spend about RM2k + (not included air ticket)....He had went to Bangkok, Pattaya, Kanchanaburi , Death Railway, floating market etc...Saw some of his pictures of riding sampan and getting into the elephant riding...haha...

Now, i think he is quite broke lio....need to start to save money for his next trip, i think....as for me....haiirs.....still worry of my current financial situation. Feel like i have something to worry and i need to save more money for my future 1st then i can consider my overseas trips....no ideas...When think of money, sure headache...lol...

Anyway, below is the few things that my bro get it from Thailand...mostly he say the shirts there is very cheap and variety of designs...

This shirt is cute...i like it..he buy for himself......is Bla Bla bear (if not mistaken)

Extra large Hand-made leather bag...my mum want it..haha..You never know how big and how clumsy when you hold it..haha..

Sleeveless shirt for guys, quite good quality (assorted designs)

Cartoon boxers...i like the "Ultraman"..heard is bought from night market for his friends,...i dont think his friend will wear it...haha...too cute...

sleeveless shirt for lady...he bought for me, but dont see suit my style...coz i have a "chubby" arms...poor...haha...

Couple T-shirts in box

2 pcs of T-shirt in the box (Size L & Size S) for me and my bf...already notified my bf, if he wear it, then i wont really wear it...paiseh!!...hahaha

Double Celebration & Joys

Today is the 14th of Feb 2010 of the Year of Tiger. It is the 1st day of the Chinese New Year(CNY) and also Valentine Day. Not often both date will be happened together. So it should be double joys for the lovers...

For me, i will be staying with my family since is CNY. Now, watching Astro and updating my blogs as i can as i might outstation with my bf to his hometown for CNY in next 2 days. So, just trying my best to write and send my wishes to you all while im still in KL and have the access for internet..

In here wishing lovers a very Happy Valentine Day. Hope each lover always stay loving, caring and together all the time. Learn to appreciate each other more...

And Happy Chinese New Year to everyone....

Gong Xi Fatt Chai....

Huat ah!!~~~ lol

090909 - A Day to Remember....

Last night after i back from work, i get ready to wait for my bf to go pasar malam. He told me there is surprise for me. So i was not able to update my blog and to wish everyone Happy 09-09-09..

Yesterday was the 9th Day of Month of 9th(September) in the Year of 2009 .....As we know, the number 9(Nine) is an aucipious number to Chinese. Number 9(Nine) means longevity(aka "Cheung Cheung Gau Gau") to Chinese ....so many Chinese couple registered during the days as you can see from the newspaper..

Anyway, for my surprise?? I got a twin teddy bear....here some snapshot for you all....

look like wearing a purple dress...

Closer view

Wishing you all happiness and love each other all the time....

Paddington House of Pancakes

Paddington House of Pancakes(P-HOP) is the 1st full dining specialty pancake restaurant in Asia. PHOP has wide range of pancakes to be serve to their customers. And this Valentine, im so happy that i able to have a sweet and nice lunch with my loved one.

This Valentine, PHOP has introduced a special set meal for two at the price of RM98++. We have search for some place around The Curve and finally we decide to have something sweet and new thing to try...Pancake...lol

In the Valentine set meal, each couple will be able to try their favourite sizzling French crepes, a drink of any from PHOP's beverages list and a Valentime surprise dessert for FREE...each of us had choose a different type of crepes and drinks so we could have taste more from what PHOP has offer to the customers.

Stuffed Chicken with Prawns, Chicken Ham, Mushroom, Mozzarella & Pineapple whereby served with homemade orange marmalade sauce - This is really cool as there are many ingrediants which i cant imagined i can get it in 1 dish only. haha...there are chicken, seafood(prawn), ham, mushroom, cheese(mozarrella) and even fruits(pineapples / marmalade sauce). The dish really great and i enjoy it so much and also im really full too...There will be a french crepe along the dish whereby you can spread the crepe with the sweet sauces and top ur crepes with slices of meats...yummy....guess what, all the dish is served with a "cooking pan"....

Grilled Lamb Leg with Garlic & roasted eggplant whereby served with homemade apple sauce - the waitress is very friendly that she has asked whether the lamb leg need to be mediumly cooked or to be done. The grilled lamb leg is nice to be served with the apple sauce. Erm, large portion too..ahaha...good for my bf...

Ice Mocha(left) - a good drink for those who love coffee...a heavy cream on top and think coffee / choc syrup on below...In between must be the fresh milk..

Blueberry, Mango & ice cream (right)- a mix blended of blueberry and mango which was recommended by the waitress. Wow....sour a bit and it suit my taste...and on top with a vanila ice cream. i scope a small spoon of the ice cream and it cover with the blended blueberry and mango...and as you eat it, the ice cream slowly melted inside the mouth. My comment, make sure you finish the whole scope of ice cream....before it melted inside the glass...then it like not so appetizing...haha...

Our surpise Valentine dessert...haha....It just so lovely that i dont even noticed that the dessert actually says everything....there is many pancake with the shape like the letter of " I LOVE U" nicely decorated...wow...really lovely that i felt i do not wish to eat it. I can see there are many pancake which the shape like heart....and on top of the vanilla ice cream and lots of mix fruits(banana, strawberry nad prunes). We were given a small jug of honey to be eaten together with the pancake shaped I LOVE U or you can eat it with the strawberry jam which just spread in between the dish...It just make my Valentines so sweet and loving.

My bf hope we can go there for more pancakes & desserts...The meals is really full and we are very satisfy with it. Thanks PHOP for giving us such a nice Valentine.

Happy Valentine to Everyone....its never too late as everyday will be also be a Valentine Day if you really appreaciate every single minutes with your loved ones.

Paddington House of Pancakes
The Curve

你不是真正的快乐 - 五月天

p/s : The song really meaningful.....I really love the lyrics.....


你不是真正的快乐 - 五月天
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人群中哭着 你只想变成透明的颜色
你再也不会梦或痛或心动了
你已经决定了 你已经决定了

你静静忍着 紧紧把昨天在拳心握着
而回忆越是甜就是越伤人
越是在手心留下密密麻麻深深浅浅的刀割

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂关在永远锁上的躯壳

这世界笑了 于是你合群的一起笑了
当生存是规则 不是你的选择
于是你含着眼泪飘飘荡荡跌跌撞撞地走着

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂关在永远锁上的躯壳

你不是真正的快乐
你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
我站在你左侧 却像隔着银河
难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了 然后才后悔着

你不是真正的快乐
你的笑只是你穿的保护色
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
把你的灵魂关在永远锁上的躯壳

你不是真正的快乐
你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
我站在你左侧 却像隔着银河
难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了

你值得真正的快乐
你应该脱下你穿的保护色
为什么失去了 还要被惩罚呢
能不能就让悲伤全部结束在此刻
重新开始活着

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At 1st, i heard this song, i just know the word " You're are not really happy" as my Mandarin is just "1/2 tong water". But after listening it for few times, i slowly understand it little bit . And it is really make me think "That's me"..in the past. A song that really sang out my feeling that time. After many many sudden things happen during my 21th birthday, i was deeply hurt by love with betray and fulls of sadness. I always fake a smile and tell the whole world that im ok but actually im really sad. No one understand my feeling that time. I "locked" myself for few years with alcohols. I saw all my beloved friends beside me feel unhappy for what i done to myself which totally i lost my ownself.

I reliased that no matter how sad im, the world is still moving. I have to continue with my life. With all the supports from my friends and not to say my bf and i begin to stand and to build the new me. I begin to open my heart to the world. All those yrs, i been too stubborn where i really forget that actually i know what actually really make me happy...which is get to know more friends. Things has passed and i cant hold it anymore. I only can hold what i have in the present. I know the past and the hurt will always stay & follow wherever i goes, and the only thing for me to let go it is to stay more happy than anyone in this world and do what i think im happy for it.

Im not a good advisor, but just wanna say some word to a friend. You actually know what actually will make yourself more happy than staying in the past which u cant never hold it anymore. The only we can do is to hold the present and build the future. Build the new you and all the good things will slowly flows into your life. Stay happy. There always many ppl to support you and not to say, the 1st will be me....let's the God guide us to where we really belong too....

The Differences Between Men & Women

I accidentally found this diagram (as above) in the SmartArt of Microsoft Word 2007. Once I saw the diagram, there is an idea struck into my mind. Lol…I felt that the chart can describe the differences between a Man and a Woman. I design the chart by putting some details into it to look simple, short but “informative” so it could describe what I have in my mind about this case.Referring to the diagram, I have categorized between Egoistic Man & Generosity Woman. You may see the diagram is imbalance whereby this is why Man always feel so “heavy” than Woman. Let me explain it one by one…haha...hey, I’m not trying to criticize any of the gender group coz now we are living in generation whereby Man and Woman is in same status. Man can conquer their world while Woman can chase their own dreams.

So, why Man can be categorized as Egoistic Man? Egoistic comes from the word of ego. I think many of us especially Woman would have such perception that 99% of the Man are ego. Man always thinks they are great in everything. Man tends to show off even they know they are not the perfect ones in order to increase their SOCIAL STATUS. Man will try to do anything to impress their clients to give them a business so they can reach their sales quota or to maintain a good relation. At least this could make them survive in their CAREER areas. When with colleagues, Man will fight or race against each other to be the Number 1 in office just to make the boss happy and praise them and the end, maybe can get more increments or bonuses. With family, they will say, their boss very trust and love them and always buy them meal but in fact, there might be certain day, their boss gone mad and scold them and throw the file right into their face. Piakkkk….Haiirsss…What they can say? Just silent and walk away even they very wish to punch that boss..Haha. Feel pity for them?

With Woman, Man pretends to be superhero to protect their Woman from bad peoples or Man having a bad attitude which ended with a fight just to get “face-c”. What’s the result? Get hit and ended with bruises in the hospital lo. Or maybe when his BROTHERHOOD or so called his buddies need help, they sure be there for them and forget their dating with their Woman. Opppss….he did it again!! This is what called “Heng Tai” lo. Helping is ok but need to see your own limits lo. If can’t help, try to get someone who can really help rather than put anger on their Woman. Why can’t a Man try cool down or try to avoid & solve the matters in a more appropriate ways? Besides that, some Man love to pay things with credit cards. Yes, having 1-2 cards is ok but doesn’t need to be too much like business name card. Phewww…..might be their wallet also not enough to put their credit cards. Always bring her Woman for luxury meals or buy jewelry just to impress the Woman. Yeah, the Woman will be happy thinking your FINANCE is really good to care them forever but I will say, you will really cry like baby when you saw your credit card statement every month. For what reasons?? Wan “FACE-ccc” again lo. Haha…

Let’s we go to see how the Woman characters. I have categorized Woman as Generosity Woman. Why? Based on the diagram, simply we can see know that FAMILY are very important in their life. They treasure their parents and are kind to their siblings and working hard to support and to give them a better life. Not to say, Woman also loves making FRIENDS. Having a friend is like having a companion to hear them grumbling about their Man and how’s their boss ask them to work late even their house are far from the company and even with those little pay. Walau…little salary, ask me “include mountain include sea.” haha…Woman love going shopping together and having some tea break with their friends. With this, they can exchange their fashion sense and have more time to “kepo”. To be honest, a Woman can talk non-stop and they really enjoy it sometimes just to make the time passed faster. This is so called “Chi Mui” lol… LOVE also plays an important part in Woman’s life. Woman tend to stay loyal to their Man when they think the Man able to give them supports and in return love the same way as they do. Woman just hopes they could get a loving Man who can care them till they gets old. You may heard, Woman willing to lose weight or even do face surgery just to make their Man happy and love them more. But cant denied, they are some Woman who tends to think negatively whereby they try to take away their own precious life just because they feel nobody love them.

The conclusion, this is why Man always feel “heavy” in term of responsibility and pressures compare to Woman. Man tends to make things complicated while Woman loves simplicity. Can’t deny that Man need to be more hardworking as they need to build their own family, to provide the basic needs to his Woman and future kid. While Woman will pray hard hard in hope to get the Man she love and will care for her till forever. Sometimes, Man can’t blame Woman for being too “heavy” as this is one of their destiny. Just hope and pray that the Man can find a Woman who can be more considerate and share the “weight” together lol.

This is not to say or show anything bad about both parties. But just pray every Man can find their Woman in this world and lead a happy and harmony life together by sharing each other feeling, life, stress, happiness & sadness, etc. Feel free to drop a comment / some words which you wish to say to all the Man & Woman in this world.