I accidentally found this diagram (as above) in the SmartArt of Microsoft Word 2007. Once I saw the diagram, there is an idea struck into my mind. Lol…I felt that the chart can describe the differences between a Man and a Woman. I design the chart by putting some details into it to look simple, short but “informative” so it could describe what I have in my mind about this case.Referring to the diagram, I have categorized between Egoistic Man & Generosity Woman. You may see the diagram is imbalance whereby this is why Man always feel so “heavy” than Woman. Let me explain it one by one…haha...hey, I’m not trying to criticize any of the gender group coz now we are living in generation whereby Man and Woman is in same status. Man can conquer their world while Woman can chase their own dreams.
So, why Man can be categorized as Egoistic Man? Egoistic comes from the word of ego. I think many of us especially Woman would have such perception that 99% of the Man are ego. Man always thinks they are great in everything. Man tends to show off even they know they are not the perfect ones in order to increase their SOCIAL STATUS. Man will try to do anything to impress their clients to give them a business so they can reach their sales quota or to maintain a good relation. At least this could make them survive in their CAREER areas. When with colleagues, Man will fight or race against each other to be the Number 1 in office just to make the boss happy and praise them and the end, maybe can get more increments or bonuses. With family, they will say, their boss very trust and love them and always buy them meal but in fact, there might be certain day, their boss gone mad and scold them and throw the file right into their face. Piakkkk….Haiirsss…What they can say? Just silent and walk away even they very wish to punch that boss..Haha. Feel pity for them?
With Woman, Man pretends to be superhero to protect their Woman from bad peoples or Man having a bad attitude which ended with a fight just to get “face-c”. What’s the result? Get hit and ended with bruises in the hospital lo. Or maybe when his BROTHERHOOD or so called his buddies need help, they sure be there for them and forget their dating with their Woman. Opppss….he did it again!! This is what called “Heng Tai” lo. Helping is ok but need to see your own limits lo. If can’t help, try to get someone who can really help rather than put anger on their Woman. Why can’t a Man try cool down or try to avoid & solve the matters in a more appropriate ways? Besides that, some Man love to pay things with credit cards. Yes, having 1-2 cards is ok but doesn’t need to be too much like business name card. Phewww…..might be their wallet also not enough to put their credit cards. Always bring her Woman for luxury meals or buy jewelry just to impress the Woman. Yeah, the Woman will be happy thinking your FINANCE is really good to care them forever but I will say, you will really cry like baby when you saw your credit card statement every month. For what reasons?? Wan “FACE-ccc” again lo. Haha…
Let’s we go to see how the Woman characters. I have categorized Woman as Generosity Woman. Why? Based on the diagram, simply we can see know that FAMILY are very important in their life. They treasure their parents and are kind to their siblings and working hard to support and to give them a better life. Not to say, Woman also loves making FRIENDS. Having a friend is like having a companion to hear them grumbling about their Man and how’s their boss ask them to work late even their house are far from the company and even with those little pay. Walau…little salary, ask me “include mountain include sea.” haha…Woman love going shopping together and having some tea break with their friends. With this, they can exchange their fashion sense and have more time to “kepo”. To be honest, a Woman can talk non-stop and they really enjoy it sometimes just to make the time passed faster. This is so called “Chi Mui” lol… LOVE also plays an important part in Woman’s life. Woman tend to stay loyal to their Man when they think the Man able to give them supports and in return love the same way as they do. Woman just hopes they could get a loving Man who can care them till they gets old. You may heard, Woman willing to lose weight or even do face surgery just to make their Man happy and love them more. But cant denied, they are some Woman who tends to think negatively whereby they try to take away their own precious life just because they feel nobody love them.
The conclusion, this is why Man always feel “heavy” in term of responsibility and pressures compare to Woman. Man tends to make things complicated while Woman loves simplicity. Can’t deny that Man need to be more hardworking as they need to build their own family, to provide the basic needs to his Woman and future kid. While Woman will pray hard hard in hope to get the Man she love and will care for her till forever. Sometimes, Man can’t blame Woman for being too “heavy” as this is one of their destiny. Just hope and pray that the Man can find a Woman who can be more considerate and share the “weight” together lol.
This is not to say or show anything bad about both parties. But just pray every Man can find their Woman in this world and lead a happy and harmony life together by sharing each other feeling, life, stress, happiness & sadness, etc. Feel free to drop a comment / some words which you wish to say to all the Man & Woman in this world.
So, why Man can be categorized as Egoistic Man? Egoistic comes from the word of ego. I think many of us especially Woman would have such perception that 99% of the Man are ego. Man always thinks they are great in everything. Man tends to show off even they know they are not the perfect ones in order to increase their SOCIAL STATUS. Man will try to do anything to impress their clients to give them a business so they can reach their sales quota or to maintain a good relation. At least this could make them survive in their CAREER areas. When with colleagues, Man will fight or race against each other to be the Number 1 in office just to make the boss happy and praise them and the end, maybe can get more increments or bonuses. With family, they will say, their boss very trust and love them and always buy them meal but in fact, there might be certain day, their boss gone mad and scold them and throw the file right into their face. Piakkkk….Haiirsss…What they can say? Just silent and walk away even they very wish to punch that boss..Haha. Feel pity for them?
With Woman, Man pretends to be superhero to protect their Woman from bad peoples or Man having a bad attitude which ended with a fight just to get “face-c”. What’s the result? Get hit and ended with bruises in the hospital lo. Or maybe when his BROTHERHOOD or so called his buddies need help, they sure be there for them and forget their dating with their Woman. Opppss….he did it again!! This is what called “Heng Tai” lo. Helping is ok but need to see your own limits lo. If can’t help, try to get someone who can really help rather than put anger on their Woman. Why can’t a Man try cool down or try to avoid & solve the matters in a more appropriate ways? Besides that, some Man love to pay things with credit cards. Yes, having 1-2 cards is ok but doesn’t need to be too much like business name card. Phewww…..might be their wallet also not enough to put their credit cards. Always bring her Woman for luxury meals or buy jewelry just to impress the Woman. Yeah, the Woman will be happy thinking your FINANCE is really good to care them forever but I will say, you will really cry like baby when you saw your credit card statement every month. For what reasons?? Wan “FACE-ccc” again lo. Haha…
Let’s we go to see how the Woman characters. I have categorized Woman as Generosity Woman. Why? Based on the diagram, simply we can see know that FAMILY are very important in their life. They treasure their parents and are kind to their siblings and working hard to support and to give them a better life. Not to say, Woman also loves making FRIENDS. Having a friend is like having a companion to hear them grumbling about their Man and how’s their boss ask them to work late even their house are far from the company and even with those little pay. Walau…little salary, ask me “include mountain include sea.” haha…Woman love going shopping together and having some tea break with their friends. With this, they can exchange their fashion sense and have more time to “kepo”. To be honest, a Woman can talk non-stop and they really enjoy it sometimes just to make the time passed faster. This is so called “Chi Mui” lol… LOVE also plays an important part in Woman’s life. Woman tend to stay loyal to their Man when they think the Man able to give them supports and in return love the same way as they do. Woman just hopes they could get a loving Man who can care them till they gets old. You may heard, Woman willing to lose weight or even do face surgery just to make their Man happy and love them more. But cant denied, they are some Woman who tends to think negatively whereby they try to take away their own precious life just because they feel nobody love them.
The conclusion, this is why Man always feel “heavy” in term of responsibility and pressures compare to Woman. Man tends to make things complicated while Woman loves simplicity. Can’t deny that Man need to be more hardworking as they need to build their own family, to provide the basic needs to his Woman and future kid. While Woman will pray hard hard in hope to get the Man she love and will care for her till forever. Sometimes, Man can’t blame Woman for being too “heavy” as this is one of their destiny. Just hope and pray that the Man can find a Woman who can be more considerate and share the “weight” together lol.
This is not to say or show anything bad about both parties. But just pray every Man can find their Woman in this world and lead a happy and harmony life together by sharing each other feeling, life, stress, happiness & sadness, etc. Feel free to drop a comment / some words which you wish to say to all the Man & Woman in this world.
All the lanterns is hang on each level of the mall. You can see, some of the participants are using recycle material such as mineral bottle , soft drink cans or bottle caps. Really unbelievable that their imagination is really good. Some lantern is decorated with colorful lights which makes the mall more bright and colorful. I can see the design for the lanterns includes rabbits, flowers, dragons, chinese tanglung,fruits and one of my fav, CJ7..lol...
If me, i think i rather just buy one from pasar malam. I might have the high imagination but yet im lazy to do it. I think the contest result will mostly out during the day when Mooncake festival comes. And if not mistaken, those lanterns will usually be hang there for about 1-2 weeks after the contest ends. So, just take some time to see those beautiful and huge lantern.
